I understand what you are saying. That's one of the great things about cannabis, you can view your life and be content and happy with what you have. You shouldn't really care what other's think. What's important is what you think about yourself. I don't see pre-marital sex or smoking cannabis as wrong, but everyone is different. It's acceptance that is harder. We are quick to convince ourselves that our opinions are right and others are wrong. Who are others to judge you???