Vaginismus

[Frontios]

dear birdgirl,

thank you very much for your help and understanding. My boyfriend is very understanding and i'm working closely with my doctor, but yeah progress is slow and life can be difficult and strained. I just happen to be in Amsterdam with my boyfriend in a month, so our attitude is doggedly to let's try everything possible that may help in the treatment of this condition. not as a crutch or an escape or even a supplement, but simply to explore our options in good faith. thank you again for your sound advice an empathy.

[Hajpoj]

I don't wish to sound crass or offensive so I offer advice with a grain of salt. Intense passionate love-making could help you overcome this hurdle, overpowering all your senses at once under the right conditions could allow you to get so "lost in the moment" that everything else will just come natural to you.

Getting away from familiar locations will help dearly, a vacation far away allows you to separate yourself further from earthly woes. It's not about telling yourself anything, that's what you want to avoid. You don't want to feel any pressure or anxiety or pain, you're away from all that now and ready to completely let yourself be blissed out. You want to bite onto your lover's lip, and sink your nails deeply into his back. Never looking back.

[xsaist]

I stumbled upon this topic while searching if people were aware of this.

My girlfriend has had vaginismus for years, which hasn't been a problem for her because her former partners were women. We've been a couple for 4 months now, and it's going great. We haven't had any problems with the fact that she has vaginismus because we have anal sex.

In any case, last week I finally got my hands on some good quality weed (which is quite hard to find in this country) and I smoked it with my girlfriend.
After we were both baked, i started playing with her, and to our surprise, we noticed that my fingered practically slid into her vagina.
That was the first time we were able to have vaginal sex.

So. to answer your question: Yes, it does.

Mind you, my girlfriend doesn't smoke cigarettes, so when we used to smoke, she never got stoned, because she didn't inhale.
We solved this problem by me taking a puff from the joint without inhaling, and slowly blowing it in her mouth, while she inhaled.
We liked this so much (seeing as the smoke goes all the way down and because it's nice to be so close to each other.) She does it to me as well.

[Jbassey]

dear birdgirl,

thank you very much for your help and understanding. My boyfriend is very understanding and i'm working closely with my doctor, but yeah progress is slow and life can be difficult and strained. I just happen to be in Amsterdam with my boyfriend in a month, so our attitude is doggedly to let's try everything possible that may help in the treatment of this condition. not as a crutch or an escape or even a supplement, but simply to explore our options in good faith. thank you again for your sound advice an empathy.

Hey Frontios,

Any update on your trip to Amsterdam? Did you go ahead to explore the options of using marijuana to help support your treatment of Vaginismus? If yes, how did it go?