Quote Originally Posted by Breukelen advocaat
I once knew a guy that dumped a really nice girl just because she was overweight. He didn't tell her that. He just made it out that he wasn't happy with the direction the relationship was going, or something like that. People can be really stupid.

Don't wonder about why it didn't work, just move on. You deserve better.
If he didnt want to be with the girl then he had three options.

1) Stay with her anyway just to make her happy but end up being miserable

2) Tell her the truth, that doesnt want to be with her because she is overweight.

3) Say the relationship isnt going anywhere or something to that effect.

To be honest I think he chose the best option both for himself and for her. Telling a girl you are leaving her because of the way she looks can mess up their whole life. It can take years for some women to trust a man again and some never even do that. Basically if she thinks its something to do with her as a person then thats fine, theres plenty of fish in the sea. Sometimes its a lot easier for someone to change how they look on the inside as opposed to how they look on outside. Thats just my two pence mate :thumbsup: