girlfriend problem

[stickyichy]

So Lately my girl has stopped wanting to have sex. She says its because she isn't in the mood. After a while i start wondering whats up since its been a while so i ask. She tells me its just because she isn't in the mood and that by asking im disrespecting her because all i want is sex.

I mean sure after 2 years things might need a little spicing up but seriously what could be bothering her? or do all woman just stop wanting sex for extended periods of time untill they just want it again?

She is not under to much stress and well as far as i can tell she is pretty happy.

stickyichy Reviewed by stickyichy on 12-04-2007. girlfriend problem So Lately my girl has stopped wanting to have sex. She says its because she isn't in the mood. After a while i start wondering whats up since its been a while so i ask. She tells me its just because she isn't in the mood and that by asking im disrespecting her because all i want is sex. I mean sure after 2 years things might need a little spicing up but seriously what could be bothering her? or do all woman just stop wanting sex for extended periods of time untill they just want it again? Rating: 5

[Gandalf_The_Grey]

You're "disrespecting her" for asking why she no longer wants a sex life!?!? Does she have no clue what the most basic, primary corner-stone of a healthy relationship is?

[stickyichy]

that is what i kind of feel like... i mean yeah sex isnt everything... but when you have nothing to do and your watching reruns of friends for the second time, i would think that sex would just come naturally.

[OLDE ENGLISH '800]

what i would do is do everything that gets her hot for you,get her where all she wants to do is jump you then say I don't feel like it, I just want you to hold me... You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a woman, Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?

[stickyichy]

lol that would be nice and well it would teach her something. At the same time.... I am a sex addict... its like putting cake in front of a fat kid. you know he isn't just going to look at it.

Thats a good idea though... if i can resist it might be a good move.

[OLDE ENGLISH '800]

well if you happen to be fond of this girl do with discretion she could get pissed,on the other hand it worked for me when a girl wouldnt take care of me orally, but anyway good luck with your problem.

[stickyichy]

good advice. yeah she gets mad easy... but yeah im fond of her some times i wonder when enough is enough but yeah, we have stuck together this long thanks dude.

[TheSmokingMonkey]

sometimes after a time, sex becomes rushed. It makes it feel routine and not worth savoring. slow down. really slow. like back when you were scared cuz you didn't know what to do slow. kwim? try it, see how it goes that way.

otherwise, she may have stressors you aren't aware of. it's important to give her enough space.

it's not "normal" to not want sex but she might consider visiting her doctor if there's no other reason. it could be medical.

[TheSmokingMonkey]

I also happen to think that killing your television and doing something new together are fabulous aphrodisiacs.

[stickyichy]

yeah that would be nice... i love everything nature. out doors plants... but well if it is snowing... raining... windy... she wont step foot outside. its a tad ridiculed. Everything inside cost money so i don't know what we can do. :|