Wow. Something like that happened to me once. I can only relate what seemed to work at the time; you draw your own conclusions.

No reason whatsoever occurs to me why you should let your friend know what happened. What he doesn't know won't hurt him, to be trite. You might want to mention that to her, too.

Otherwise, you're blessed. A guy can learn a hell of a lot from an older woman. Try not to get killed.

I'm envious; can't have an affair with an older woman, at my age older women are generally dead.

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