Hi cm,

I have had the same problem except that it was her who had the male friend but my situation is a little different. Her so called friend popped up out of nowhere, not to mention she was calling him all the time, sometimes 30 times a day :wtf:. Then to top it off I didnt know about dude until receiving the phone bill. When I asked her about it she constantly lied saying she didnt even talk to other men. She always claimed that he was just her friend, but my thing was if he was just your friend why lie about it? Its like she had something to hide. Then claims she stopped talking to him but comes home at 7 in the morning after being out all night with him from 5 the previous day at his cousins house. Friends my ass. It was a bunch of lies, not saying that there are lies in your situation, but my situation was a little different. Calling him and him calling her at all times of the night. Anyway, the trust isn't there anymore and she wonders why I wont get close to her or even sleep in the same bed with her now...:jointsmile:.no thanks..sorry I dont trust her anymore. Good luck with your situation...:thumbsup: