I've always had more male friends than female. I was a bit of a tomboy as a kid; girls bored me, frankly. That has carried over into my adult life, I guess. I have one best friend who is female, but all my other good friends are male.

This is all well and good until one of the guys gets a new girlfriend. 9 times out of 10, she ends up getting jealous of the friendship I have with her b/f. To clarify, I'm not flirting with their men in any way; we're just buddies. There's no "sexual tension" in the air at all. (I've been friends with two of these guys since high school.)

It just seems so childish and trivial to me. Why can't the girlfriend realize that if me and her guy "liked" each other, wouldn't we be together by now?? I know it all stems from insecurity and low self-esteem, but geez...it's causing problems for me now...I feel guilty that the reason this couple is fighting is me...
cm8883 Reviewed by cm8883 on . Guy friends I've always had more male friends than female. I was a bit of a tomboy as a kid; girls bored me, frankly. That has carried over into my adult life, I guess. I have one best friend who is female, but all my other good friends are male. This is all well and good until one of the guys gets a new girlfriend. 9 times out of 10, she ends up getting jealous of the friendship I have with her b/f. To clarify, I'm not flirting with their men in any way; we're just buddies. There's no "sexual tension" Rating: 5