Need some opinions.

[Gundari]

So I'm not sure if this is me being paranoid (after math from my last relationship) or if I'm justified in being suspicious about this.

I've only hung out with this girl a few times but I'm always smiling like an idiot on the drive home and in a good mood for the next few hours atleast. (We met shortly before thanksgiving break from college and spent most of thxgiving break talking to each other). Over that period of time I grew to like her ALOT. We have similar sense of humor, similar values (i think), and she's one of those people that I can just sit around and hold her hand and not have to say anything. As far as I can tell she reciprocates the feelings, says i'm the greatest guy she's ever met blah blah blah.
So for a while she keeps babbling about how she wants to move on from dating me to being my girlfriend, but doesn't want to because she doesn't feel she'd be able to give the amount of time she feels is nessecery to hold that position because school is gonna be hard on her for the next two weeks or so. I tell her this doesn't really bother me, and the title of girlfriend seems to mean a great deal to her. From what I had learned about her at this point she's one of those very cliche girls who likes wearing her boyfriends shirts and stuff like that (not saying thats bad, I like it actually).

So we went to go see the a hockey game together on wensday night (she's a avid hockey fan), and to make her smile I got down on one knee in front of her and asked her to be my girl friend and slipped my highschool class ring into her hand. Initially she was thrilled. After the game (she was hella pissed by then because our team played like crap and got their asses handed to them and she gets a weeeeee bit too into the game) she tells me she needs me to hang onto the ring because she's not ready for a relationship but still wants to keep seeing me. Thats fine with me, school comes first I both understand and support that.

So we were talking last night and she kept asking me why I was waiting for her, i explained to her that i consider her to be worth it as long as she doesn't plan on taking like a year or so + to get in a spot that she's ready for a real realationship again. She gets offended by this and later apologizes, I'm chalking it mostly up to stress because I think she had like a 14 hour day full of school stuff yesterday that day and she doesn't handle stress very well. We had some kinda mini fight thing, I dunno. I sat there apologizing because it wasn't my intent to offend and I was out of my head on smooth muscle relaxers to stop my stomach from spazzing. She was screaming about how she can't open up for a relationship right now. I keep telling her thats fine, I understand that etc etc.

So today I was checking up on my myspace and she filled out a survery (let it be known that I HATE myspace, she likes doing the whole myspace thing so I goof around on it so I can understand what she's talking about when she starts babbling about it) and I see these two Q and A's.

1. Who was the last person of the opposite sex you laid in a bed with?
My friend, Justin.

That really wouldn't bother me too much, I lay in my bed with members of the opposite sex to watch tv or a movie on a fairly regular basis. But its the follow up that bothers me.

20. Where did your last kiss take place?
Justin's house.

I'm just confused. I feel like i'm getting lied to about something.
I'm not really upset as I mean we're not official or anything so I have no right to get jealous over that, but it just seems to me that you wouldn't express the desires and values she has to me and then turn around and go lay with some other guy in their bed and, assumidly, kiss them. I've yet to talk to her about it as she's been in class all day, I'm posting this from class myself. Just wanted to know what ya'll though?

I really like this girl and I haven't smiled or been as happy as I have been with her the last few weeks, but I'm not going to set myself up to fall flat on my face just for a few weeks of smiling.

Anyways peace! :hippy:

Gundari Reviewed by Gundari on 11-30-2007. Need some opinions. So I'm not sure if this is me being paranoid (after math from my last relationship) or if I'm justified in being suspicious about this. I've only hung out with this girl a few times but I'm always smiling like an idiot on the drive home and in a good mood for the next few hours atleast. (We met shortly before thanksgiving break from college and spent most of thxgiving break talking to each other). Over that period of time I grew to like her ALOT. We have similar sense of humor, similar Rating: 5

[Coelho]

Man... dont be so paranoid... do you know when she kissed him? It may have been a long time before... before she met you... so it wouldnt matter, would?

[Gundari]

This survey was from today >.>

I saw her AND kissed her 2 days ago. So it had to be either thursday or sometime earlier today.

[connector_robot]

I don't know what she's talking about when she says she doesn't want a relationship. Sounds like you basically already have one. In regards to the survey thing, I don't know what to say besides ask her about it, but don't accuse her of anything. Just ask.