Lost and confused. Help?

[Coelho]

I don't have many friends. I can go days without talking to anyone but for some reason I feel fine and satisfied with exactly what I'm doing.
My basic day is, I wake up , go jogging, take a shower, maybe go out to grab some breakfast and the rest of my day just doddling. I'm alone about 80% of the day, it used to bother me that I had no friends but now I'm getting used to it but I don't know if thats okay. I don't know if me not wanting to do anything with my life is okay. I don't know why but I just don't want to do anything, I'm not depressed or suicidal or anything. When forced to I'm great in social settings, I get along with people fine but for some reason I prefer to be alone and do nothing.

Well... im very much like you... so i understand very well what you mean... its interesting you mention depression, because a lot of people thinks im depressed just because i also dont want to do anything... while in fact im very happy for doing nothing...
And i think its ok dont to want to do anything, for a time... sometimes we need some time to re evaluate our life and what we wish... to situate ourselves... maybe during this times its normal dont to want anything because were thinking about what we actually want...

I want to make my way somewhere in life and live my own life, I just don't know what the next step for me is to do.

If you dont know what to do, just wait... sooner or later your path will be more clear and you will know what to do.

Sure, in the past few years I was super confident but now I'm a little bit lost. I need a little guidance. I need some clarity. Anyone, please.

Yeah... i understand it SO well... its the coming of the age... if i remember right youre young... twenty-something (one? two?) yrs old... im 25. And since some time ago ive been feeling much like you... And some people of my age with whom i talked also felt this... so i think its a normal thing...
Anyway... i hope you find your way... My best wishes for you!

Coelho Reviewed by Coelho on 11-29-2007. Lost and confused. Help? Well, Im going to vent a little bit, and maybe a little advice is needed. So right now my current situation is that, I recently quit my job that paid $8/hr. Its been a month and I actually don't want to work again so I've been sitting at home for the past couple of weeks doing nothing and I feel like I've been wasting my time. I want to get a job but as an asian girl I don't know what job is suitable for me. To be honest, I'm not as intelligent as I ever hoped to be. I want to work but Rating: 5