Hey crudemood,

You know, I often feel the same. Motivation is a tough feature to always have on in our brains.. Spending time alone is awesome, in fact.. the best I think. However, sometimes when seeing the same people and doing the same things most everydays, things get a little too paternized. I think stimulation is the first and crucial step to motivation.. When you get the taste of something.. you want more.

What I'm saying is maybe putting just an extra little amount of effort into trying to meet people, maybe being a little more outgoing.. would most likely give you some very positive feedback, therefore a reason to motivate yourself to accomplish and push your goals. I don't really know you, so I don't know why exactly you wouldn't have many friends... you seem O.K. in my book! Trust me you will see that compassion will make people communicate straight from their hearts. It is pretty easy to find positive and supportive friends when we are willing to aknowledge and support them as well!

Also, you are young still.. don't stress too much, you've got quite a while. Just enjoy yourself and open yourself to new experiences as much as possible :jointsmile:

Good luck!

oh yea.. get a job at a call center or something.. asian girls are great at that! :thumbsup:
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