Thanks, these are great examples! Geonagual, that's good advice too. I think I'll start by doing the activities I enjoy alone in a more social setting. Get back to church again, join their 20-30 singles group, now I know this is the way to go. I think also when I get more social I'll get what little skills I once had back in my arsenal and expand them more.
You guys are so great, I think maybe I should start going to NORML meetings as well, more people with a similar mindset/worldview to what I see here possibly. Birdgirl, we live really close, would you happen to know of anyone who meets up to fly kites, build models, or go on road trips/camping? I know most people don't find that kind of stuff interesting once you're out of highschool, but for some reason I really enjoy it.