DUDE! Havent you seen Superbad!? You NEVER meet your wife at the bar! The only girl I would date that I met at a bar is one that looks like shes having as little fun as I am lol. Of course, I say that, but I cant truly make a blanket statement such as that. In reality the perfect woman for you can be found absolutely anywhere. However, the likelihood of meeting that one woman at a bar is relatively low compared to all the other examples here.

Have you ever tried volunteering at a summer camp? It sounds like you enjoy many of the activities there, and I guarantee that there are women your age who enjoy the same things, and as a result, might also be a "camp counselor." With any luck, you could meet a nice pretty one that really meshes with you. Just thought Id throw out an idea that I hadnt seen yet. Yeah.. the more I think of it... that sounds like a good idea. Just dont be one of those "camp counselors" lol you know the kind Im talking about just playin