Re-read my post. " Pollen from a male hermaphrodite then will logically give the same m/f ratio as a normal male when crossed with a female:"

KB sez: "a herm female is typically releasing pollen with (i believe) either female or no genetics. this is how it makes female-only seeds (no y-chromosome in the mix)

It's got genetics, just no Y.

however, if a male hermies, wouldnt it work the opposite and make guaranteed males???

Nope, a male STILL carries the X chromosome. A male is XY; that logic would only follow if it were YY.

either way, pop the sacks and grow it as a female!

It's not a female. It will never BE a female. It's a male with pistils. Popping sacks releases pollen... so unless you want your next crop to risk contamination by crap herm genetics, just toss the plant. Which I think you've already done.