two of my mates had the exact same thing, your like my mate T adn your mate is like my mate J. T got with the girl, then J got with her best mate, then T cheated on J and his gf with her. broke her in and treated her like shit. she went with T realising he was way better and a decent guy and J still trawls teh internet for emo girls.

so it might be better to play the longer game as youll look like the better guy