Now if you are thinking about this as a possible relationship and not just a roll in the hay, find something that looks good- her jewelry, her blouse, purse, etc. Now just walk up to her and say "I really like that _____! Where did you get it? My sister's (cousin's, if you lack a sister) birthday is coming up and I'd like to get her one like it!" All at once, you have shown yourself to have great taste in_____, and you are a caring, generous relative! Not bad for the first 10 seconds! - Granny:hippy: