Latly I have been havin more a postive outlook on life. I try to remind myself everyday that all that matters is right now! Not what happened , an hour a go, or what happened yesterday, and so on! Just by doing this I have become more confident, and happy! and when your happy and confident, people notice it, and thats when good things happen You can't change the cards you are dealt, but you are the only one who can choose how to play them. I've allways tried to live by that saying too. Life is to short to get caught up in the past, even though I have done my fair share of dwelling in the past, not anymore though. Today is a new day, and its fuckin wonderfull!!