Quote Originally Posted by Hilder420
I just dont understand why it has to be so cut and dry when it comes to a woman being in charge and acknowledging her sexuality. That does not make me a slut.
it only makes you a slut if you personally decide you want to call yourself a slut...what anyone else thinks is irrelevant. I absolutely love with a passion a woman who acknowledge's her sexuality.

and about the topic...I have friends with benefits...then sometimes I have a g/f...depends on the barometric pressure...either way...I don't think it matters...from the very beginning of mammalian life we've been wired to put sex above all other natural urges. Our bodies are hellbent to breed. Dolphins and primates have the special ability to feel good when doing so. any other attachment to sex is purely societal. How many people, what kind of sex, which hole, what gender, how long it lasts is all societal and simply how you view sex and nothing more. Everyone will view it differently depednign on too many variables to cover. I like the instict version. The version without societal binds. The one where I sleep with any consenting adult without qualm. I can be in a relationship. I've been in a few. But that's not all I can do