Quote Originally Posted by JD1stTimer
Wow, 20" that is a hardliner stand you're taking there... I say just get to know the person well enough and if she's not that type of person then go for it and don't freak out about what other people do. If you're already in a physically intimate relationship before you find out what her behavior is like, then who's the one who's violating your standards? Is that... umm... a mirror I see in front of you? The point is, if you apply your standards to yourself it would be almost impossible to be in that situation in the first place.
Well, I wouldn't ever put myself in that position to begin with to violate my standards. I'm a guy but I wait a while to get to know a girl I am DATING before doing anything. And that's for a lot of reasons, so I get to know how she is with that stuff, and to know what she has been up to etc.. I have no problem if a girl was dating the guy for a while and did, no prob that's normal. But I wouldn't touch a girl that just does guys for "personal needs"... no thanks.

As us guys know we can take care of needs on our own if we have to, so can girls. I mean I don't trust guys, and most of my friends would fuck anything that walked so I know how a lot of guys use girls, and girls do it to. I don't want to be left with what a bunch of guys left over... as cold as that sounds.