I'm gonna have to disagree with ya for the first time Geo. At least for me, its not about looking for someone possibly marry or better than the last guy, but again, for me, is to just have my needs met, with some one I know, Trust, and am comfortable with, and ideally have a friendship with before it moves to become anything else. This last Mr. Johnson, was an exception to the rule of no ex- boyfriends- as- friends- with- benefits rule, and thats just cause he was one sexy son of a bitch that could make me sing like a fuckin.. yeah.. anyway, the two other "friends with benefits" worked out superbly. no strings, no drama, no problems. of course there are rules, and a zero tolerance policy. I kept my end of the bargain, he didnt, or couldnt, and so it was time to fly..