Thanks for the kind comments

Mr.Clandestine you are exactly right it is a chore to keep my grows to myself, but definetly worth it.

The way I look at it is if I told them, then they told someone else and that person got busted. Then offered me up to save his or her ass over a 1/4 oz.

That is my biggest worry and the only way to control it is not to tell anybody, the only exception is to tell anyone that will be directly affected if you get caught. ie. ( room or housemates ) and make them agree to the same rule because they almost have just as much at stake as you.
I don't have any housemates except for my dogs and MJ plants so that is a plus.