Quote Originally Posted by potsmokingnome
so as I'm jerkin it, she wakes up, oh boy was that a nasty ass fight! after that i didn't masterbate for over 2 years....not even when she wasn't home. What I did in the bed was wrong I know, but not pleasin myself for 2 years sucked! especially since my sex life was pretty non-existant, once every month if I was lucky, maybe twice....
That wasn't wrong at all; the only reason she was upset was that she was FULLY aware that your sex life sucked but finding you snappin' one under the sheets was like an ACCUSATION that she wasn't making you happy any more. A couple with a healthy relationship would be fine with that situation, but since you WEREN'T having sex, of COURSE she was going to take it in an over-sensitive or insecure way.

The last guy I dated seriously told me straight up early in our relationship that he enjoyed sex but also enjoyed pleasing himself on the regular, and I was like, yo, cool, whatever- he travelled for work and the way I see it, that sure beats trying to catch some tail on the side, and anyway, our sex life was spectacular (as good as it could be living 1200 miles apart, lol), so he never left me with any doubts as to the strength of our mutual attraction. It all comes down to good communication.

For the fellas, the best way out of this situation is as Narf said to just use the 'Oh you were sleeping, so sexy and beautiful, you looked so peaceful though that I would feel SOOO guilty to wake you up...' There will be no fights after that!
stinkyattic Reviewed by stinkyattic on . Getting caught jerking off!!! Holy shit, my g/f just caught me jerkin' it a few minutes ago. She was sleeping, quickly sat up, staired at me with the shocked/ am I in a dream/ just woke up out of a deep sleep look, and I just straired back, like an idiot, while there was porn playing on the computer....:( Rating: 5