Quote Originally Posted by whatsthatsmell
Rebgirl is just being herself and John is just being himself. The best part (i would imagine) of their relationship is that they have set right from the start that they are not going to change for someone else. They laid everything on the line to the other person and that person can either except it or not. Personally, I think thats the best way to be, if you have to hide shit from your other half then your cheating yourself and the other person from what really could be there.....

Congrats Rebgirl and John.......i'm happy for the both of you to be able to find someone where you can be yourself and not worry about being judged because you are already accepted in the other persons eyes......bravo to you both....
Thats exactly what we did and I wouldnt have it any other way! No games in our relationship!

And im glad so many others agree with what I said.