Quote Originally Posted by JD1stTimer
I've never understood that whole thing... why you can't still be friends after a breakup. But sometimes I attribute that to getting too physical when the relationship isn't serious enough to warrant it. I think people actually fall in love more and more when making out/having sex, and it hurts worse when you break up. I say go for it if you like the person that way, but really hold back on the sex until there's an appropriate commitment level. Then if you break up, it's not like you've given your all for that person. You could still see them as a friend without it breaking your heart.

That was really good...+rep for you
geonagual Reviewed by geonagual on . Love vs Friendship Ok, so I just finished watching an episode of a show were the girl confides that although she likes this male friend of hers, she won't go out with him, because there's no way of knowing if they'll work out - and if they don't, then she loses a lifelong friend of hers. And she'd rather keep the lifelong friend, so she keeps things at that level rather than taking that risk. If presented with the same option, what would you do? Risk losing the friend for seeing where the love goes? Or stay Rating: 5