Ok, so I think I had the soil too packed. It was like wet concrete. I fixed that and now one of the seeds is opening up to a seedling! I have also just been spritzing them with a water bottle instead of pouring water over them. This is definitely trail and error.

BTW..where does everyone else (ok just in the US) get their soil, fert, etc?? Do you order it online or buy it at a store? Or do you just go to a nursery? I can't seem to find good stuff.