naw dude your totaly right... to keep it real, dont let any kind of girl make you feel bad... sounds to me like she has kind of a flirty attitude which (if you like her like "that") isnt all that good... do this:
1:do not call her anymore
2:no girl (unless in love) is worth getting all emo over
3:you are the man
4:"you either fuck her or "fuck her!""