I'm sorry, but this was the most unintentionally funny posts I've ever read in these forums.

But good luck to you, and I would agree that you're probably hanging with the wrong crowd. I used to do it myself, but now I usually only smoke by myself or with good friends that I trust.

I also feel that you're getting high all the time as an excuse to avoid contact with her because you're afraid of what might happen (ie rejection). You could even keep on toking, because I think the problem here is the underlying fear, the reason why he's getting high instead of getting laid is because he's hesitant about what's gonna happen.

This is probably a bad suggestion, but maybe a *little* bit of alcohol, just to loosen up, would be more helpful to you in this particular case. Well, it worked for me.

Good luck:thumbsup: