Yeah most guys don't have the guts to just walk up to a girl and start bullshitting and talking. Thats why I take the first step 99.9 percent of the time. I hate to wait and I hate games. So that way either he's in or he's out. And then I can get on with my life.

I think its the fact that guys have fragile egos and being turned down even once can make them put the brakes of initiating anything other than a "hey".