Dating websites....

[spliffstar22]

just stay calm, cool and collected, and you'll be good, and dont msg her so much, you might scare her away.....

[JD1stTimer]

Sounds like you're calling her too much...

[greenhorngrower]

yeah man, just chill... she shouldnt matter so much the second time around since you already thought you lost her.. just let her contact you, and dont act so desperate, chicks HATE that... but it wont matter once you meet her and show her your a cool guy. Until then just relax, everything will work itself out, dont sweat the small stuff..

good luck man

[potsmokingnome]

yep I'm backing off, if she wants to call me she can, if she wants to message me she can. I'm just going to chill back, and take it as it comes I need to slow my ass down. I haven't even met her yet and I was allready gettin all goo goo, I need to relax, and take it easy

[potsmokingnome]

ok wow, yep I'm in the friend booth now LOL oh well...yep just a msn chat buddy now lol oh well not really ready for a reltionship anyways, and I never even met her yet. Hope I don't get anymore drunken phone calls from her lol I need to take a step back from this all, and just go with the flow of my life

[geonagual]

ok wow, yep I'm in the friend booth now LOL oh well...yep just a msn chat buddy now lol oh well not really ready for a reltionship anyways, and I never even met her yet. Hope I don't get anymore drunken phone calls from her lol I need to take a step back from this all, and just go with the flow of my life

I have been following this thread as you know..cause it sounds so familiar/yet different in what is going on in my life...right now, I am chillin with all relationships and evaluating what I really want in my life..I am going to date or whatever but I am not really thinking about anything serious at all.

[potsmokingnome]

I have been following this thread as you know..cause it sounds so familiar/yet different in what is going on in my life...right now, I am chillin with all relationships and evaluating what I really want in my life..I am going to date or whatever but I am not really thinking about anything serious at all.

I'm with ya there bud, I'm just going to re-evaluating my life, and do whats good for myself if saomethin happens while I'm doin that it happens, but if it doesn't I don't care either, its time I focused on me

[potsmokingnome]

OMFG.....Ok tonight I was being kind of bored after I got home from work. So I went and smoked a joint outside, and then I decide to go on msn for a bit. I talked to one of my good friends that i know from here ironlotus she use to go on here, but not anymore she goes to another foroum. but we keep in touch via msn. Well anyways she explained to me how I dodged a huge bullet, cause well this girl had a kid. very young kid.. 9 months old. So after that convo was feelin better. I sure am a stubborn one sometimes lol. (ok just so ya know I'm stoned right now)

After that convo I decided to check my online dating porofile, maybe update it. So I started fixin my profile. When I get a IM invite from one of the females I had messaged before. So I acepted it, and we chatted for a bit (she lives in the same city as me) so after chattin a bit she asked for my number to just call her. So we talked on the phone, and then over the phone I found out she lives like 2 blocks away from me lol!....

Before I go any further, let me establish one thing. In our messages to each other before we agreed, that we should be friends first. No need to rush anything, friends first and see where it goes from there.

....So she invited me over! lol at this point I'm totlaly amazed, cause this is all sooo out of the blue. when I'm least expectin to actually meet someone even if its on a friend level first. So I tell her to give me 30 minutes to have a shower and stuff. She says thats good will give her time to clean up. So i go over, and we have a great time, I wasn't uncomfortable around her like I thought I would be. We clicked quite well, it was great! She showed me some U-tube stuff, that was funny as hell, and some of it was just groose. but it was all good cause it was still funny. then after that We watched a Movie, and it was really cool, cause I so clicked with this girl, and I hardly ever click with people right away. bit of a social outcast! so after the movie I left, She gave me her phone number. and we agreed to do somethin tomorrow we said goodbye and we both agreed we had a good time! I really had a good time and I know me and her are doing it the right way, we are startin as friends and takin it as we go. I like her, and she's pretty damn hot! I think somethin could come of this but even if it doesn't I get a new friend that i conect with.

Only one slight problem....she doesn't smoke the herb....but she's not totally against it. Seems like she just gets parinoid about getting it. she said she'd smoke a joint if her friend's are doin it at the time. So thats kind of kewl, maybe tomorrow i can be that friend? lol Well I'm just glad I met someone new and she's around my age as well

[thcbongman]

Blossoming love.....so beautiful. :thumbsup:

[geonagual]

haha..I know your friend from the other forum...I even have gotten stoned and hiked with her..lol..no lie