Ahh Geo, of course the ladies be all up ons.
But maybe you're just getting more choosy, more set in your ways, and imposing a loneliness on yourself that you would have never suffered back in the day when you were, as many of us have been at some point, more willing to consider dating someone with less compatibility?
Enjoy your loneliness, get comfortable with it, because if you never feel loneliness, how will you ever really know when you feel content?