Can't figure this girl out

[chucktownbeez1]

*Update*

Walked back with her after class this morning, her phone is messed up which explains last night (her text were like 5 hours delayed, she sent me one at 4 am asking to watch a movie, when really she wanted to at like 11) So now shes leaving for clemson for the weekend at 1, I asked her if she wanted get lunch if she had time before she left, so now if she can I guess she'll call. Whether we eat lunch or not, should I call her this weekend at clemson just to talk? Or just wait until she gets back. Cannabis.com get me through this, I'm new here some good advice would be greatly appreciated. All the advice so far has been extremely helpful and actually has completely changed my outlook on the situation. I really do think now that you all were right, I'm pretty sure shes interested.

[The Dude Of Life]

i'm in the same kind of situation, ive been chillin with this girl for about a week now even in my room with beers and still not made a move on her... she even went as far as to take me lingerie shopping with her yesterday... good sign or what i dont know, im just so hesitant to make the move you know its hard shit.

[DaZeDShAdOw]

chuck when shes at clemson call her a couple times but (do not be clingy and call her all the time) call her and just ask her how her day went and if shes doing good......also when she comes back maybe take her to the movies or out to dinner or go for a walk or whatever and then make the move and kiss her believe me from the sounds of it shes def. into you and she wants you to make a move

[chucktownbeez1]

Dazed, def good call I did that actually I called her at like 11 Saturday night and set up plans for monday night before we both leave school for thanksgiving. She seemed excited that I called and def wants to hang out. I'm gonna take her to dinner then a movie, I'll let you guys know what's up, things are looking well right now.

[DaZeDShAdOw]

good deal glad to hear it bro! keep us posted.

[geonagual]

Glad everything is going good...this is the funnest stage in relationships...

[Spoken Word]

You gotta have a favorite toking spot that's aesthetically pleasing.

:thumbsup:

*Update*

Walked back with her after class this morning, her phone is messed up which explains last night (her text were like 5 hours delayed, she sent me one at 4 am asking to watch a movie, when really she wanted to at like 11) So now shes leaving for clemson for the weekend at 1, I asked her if she wanted get lunch if she had time before she left, so now if she can I guess she'll call. Whether we eat lunch or not, should I call her this weekend at clemson just to talk? Or just wait until she gets back. Cannabis.com get me through this, I'm new here some good advice would be greatly appreciated. All the advice so far has been extremely helpful and actually has completely changed my outlook on the situation. I really do think now that you all were right, I'm pretty sure shes interested.

Lucky you, that sounds great man.

If you're really interested in her, I guess you have to find a *respectful* way of letting her know. When and where is up to you. Like most have said, during the "date", try and find a way to kiss her. This will let her know you mean buisness. That way, she can't say that she thought you guys were -just- friends. I don't mean to try and take it all the way, just a kiss(or more) should let her know AND should give her something to think about. And of course, that's what you want, to have her think about you like you are thinking about her.

Respect her space but make your interest and attraction obvious.

Also, I wouldn't be so foward with the invitations. You never know when she might be in a bad mood and if you haven't gotten to a certain stage in the relationship, you might ANNOY her. And I think females hate that, when guys start annoying them.

When you guys DO set up a "date"...
try to let her know that you are looking for something with her.
like maybe ask her questions about her (not TO "deep") to try and get to know her better, but don't get too close. I'm sure you don't want her to consider you "that best-friend". A kiss SHOULD do the trick.

If you think she really is interested, well, that's half the battle.

GOOD LUCK!