Can't figure this girl out

[chucktownbeez1]

So there's this girl in my spanish class that I've been hanging out with occasionaly. I asked her to go to coffee after class one day and we did, and we did that a few more times. She called me up one night when she was out with her friends from home to hang out. So we hung out that night and flirted a ton but I didn't pull the trigger. Hung out once or twice after that at my place just for awhile (but early at night which is weak).

This week we hang out two nights ago, her idea, at my place to study spanish and watch a movie. I buy both of us beer, she comes over and talks to roommate while I'm like between them for awhile, and then does her spanish hw on my comp with my book while we're supposed to be watching the movie. She didn't really flirt with him but she still talked to him alot. Now at the same time I got all this negativity going on she still says stuff that makes me think shes into me. We hung alone while my roommmates were at dinner, but I never saw an oppurtunity to make a move. I text her later that night asking to hang out again, she says yes just say when, next day I ask to hang tommorow, saying I'll try to find a party and I'll let her know.

So now here we are TODAY, I text her around 7 saying I haven't heard of any parties, (Just bars, but she doesn't have a fake so that wouldn't work) she texts me back at 11:00 asking if found anything, I tell her no and that I'm at my friends watching The life Aquatic and she hasn't texted me back in an hour.

It really sucks guys, because I really like this girl, she's a knockout combo that I just can't give up on too easy. Ladies out there (Or men, if you know what you're talking about or have a hiliarious generic web forum comment to add) what's going on with this girl. I'm fighting a lost cause? Or is there still something I could do?

TL; DR: This girl is giving me the run around, and I want to punch her in the ovaries.

chucktownbeez1 Reviewed by chucktownbeez1 on 11-16-2007. Can't figure this girl out So there's this girl in my spanish class that I've been hanging out with occasionaly. I asked her to go to coffee after class one day and we did, and we did that a few more times. She called me up one night when she was out with her friends from home to hang out. So we hung out that night and flirted a ton but I didn't pull the trigger. Hung out once or twice after that at my place just for awhile (but early at night which is weak). This week we hang out two nights ago, her idea, at my Rating: 5

[Canadian_Cron]

So now here we are TODAY, I text her around 7 saying I haven't heard of any parties, (Just bars, but she doesn't have a fake so that wouldn't work) she texts me back at 11:00 asking if found anything, I tell her no and that I'm at my friends watching The life Aquatic and she hasn't texted me back in an hour.

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thats when u shudda asked her if she wanted to hange out with you 2nite... dude shes into you, shes just waiting for you 2 make your move... dont wait 2 long or shes gonna lose interest. ask her to hang out with u in a place where u know that ull b comfortable to make a move on her, but at the same time dont make it really obvious.

[Dave Byrd]

Canadian's right. You're the one who's been hesitating. Until now, she's been saying yes to your invitations to hang out/study. Yet you keep letting the moments get away from you. Keep that up and the moments will soon slip right through your fingers. The only person you ought to be mad at right now is yourself.

[1puff2puff3puff]

I agree Canadian, make your move and soon before you move in the friends zone and she looses intrest in you, and starts liking your friends. Trust me we are like that, she like you and she showed you now she is waiting for you to act on it, if your not ........


Good Luck Hun...

[chucktownbeez1]

Alright so tommorow after spanish in the a.m. should I ask her to grab some coffee and then try and make plans again. I've been out of the game for awhile guys, I could really use a game plan here.

[thcbongman]

You know any romantic spots where you could swoon her with a kiss? :thumbsup:

[geonagual]

Coffee is done! Do something else...have you 2 kissed yet?

If you need ideas on things to do..just ask

[FlyGuyOU]

put the fucking move on, get a move on

[chucktownbeez1]

Nah we haven't kissed yet, and shes leaving to go out of town tommorow so I won't see her all weekend, that's why I dont understand why she wouldn't have texted me back until 11, which is really late for both of us.

So where can I take her at 11:00 a.m. that would be better than coffee or breakfast (done that too)?

[thcbongman]

You gotta have a favorite toking spot that's aesthetically pleasing. Doesn't matter the place, but your mindset. Just be yourself, and let things flow naturally. Show her what you want!