Thank you birdgirl for your honest reply. Yes I agree lack of education on the matter does play and important roll. There should be more done my more suitable people to educate or young children on these matters. A cop or some other authority figure like that does not have the influence they believe on a child. A strong minded child, regardless of how intelligent will start a habit like that just because the "authority " figure told them not to. I think it should be approached differently. Now I donā??t have the answers for this but I believe it is something that should be looked into by parents, teachers and so forth. We cannot deny human nature, the desire in a child and even a lot of adults to go against what is thought of, as right and normal is too strong for some of them to resist.