see, this is why i dont listen to people like you chaotixxx. its not lust. i dont get this bent out of shape if i wanna sleep with someone, i could go beat off and there, problem solved i'm not horny any more. i dont CARE if it turns sexual, i want to know what the hell is going on in her head. i want to know how she feels and how i can get through to her. and no, if i love someone i'm gonna tell them. i dont believe in a set way of doing things for relationships, because its bullshit.