Dude, I have been in your place. Don't listen to anyone telling you it's not love, you know in your heart what's real. The hard part is when they don't feel it back... you hold out hope, "maybe if we stay friends one day she'll see me for who I am", thinking of some way to prove to her... etc, etc

It is the worst feeling in the world, and at the same time it's the best, because you are totally consumed with this overwhelming feeling towards someone.

Been there more times than I care to admit. Here's my advice. Don't try to stay friends, it will just hurt too much. You're going to hurt anyway, may as well get it over with as quickly as possible. I tried the "staying friends and hoping" thing, twice. Once for over a year. I was freaking MISERABLE the entire time. Then come to find out, the whole time I was pining over this girl, a different girl was pining over me! Go figure!

Anyway, good luck dude. You have my sincere sympathies.
SecondNut Reviewed by SecondNut on . I love her I came to a realization last night. I've been having intense feelings for a girl the past few weeks, and she claims to feel the same, though she feels she cant be in a relationship or anything like that. We're both in college and I walked her back to her place at about 2 in the morning, and had a long talk about how we felt and where this is going (which is nowhere). When I got back to my place it hit me like a ton of bricks. I had been having dreams about her (specifically about losing her) Rating: 5