I love her

[Charles U Farley]

Hey Budha,
I give you credit for courage,its really scary and risky opening your heart,allowing your self to be vulnerable.I think its easy for others to say your thinking with your lower extremity and not your heart,or dont tell someone you love them first.Most of these folks are scared of being vulnerable and I dont blame them,because youve just given someone the power now if they dont feel the same way to manipulate and use you,its scary as hell.You know whats in your heart,but dont let it over rule your common sense.If you think she is leading you on and that there will probably never be a relationship,well... trust your instincts.All the power,passion,love in a relationship needs to be equally distributed and not all one side.I truly hope things work out for you,but it sounds like she isnt or wont be reciprocal in her feelings for you,good luck my friend,take care,be well,and most of all be safe.

Charles U Farley Reviewed by Charles U Farley on 11-19-2007. I love her I came to a realization last night. I've been having intense feelings for a girl the past few weeks, and she claims to feel the same, though she feels she cant be in a relationship or anything like that. We're both in college and I walked her back to her place at about 2 in the morning, and had a long talk about how we felt and where this is going (which is nowhere). When I got back to my place it hit me like a ton of bricks. I had been having dreams about her (specifically about losing her) Rating: 5

[geonagual]

Well put Charles...+rep to you buddy

[birdgirl73]

Moderating

Chaotixxx and DaBudhaStank, you both crossed over the line in some posts above, which I've now deleted. That needs to stop. I will hand out more infractions and do more deletions if I need to, but you two really need to steer clear of each other. Chaotixx, your assignment is to quit responding in this post altogether. You can't seem to do that without being offensive.

[StickyfingahZ]

Dang Bro,hard to not think about something you love.There is such a thing as too much of anything.Try taking a step back and try looking at it from her point of view.She did say she feels the same.
Just go with your gut feelings bro,but dont push too hard,Dont worry about kissing her,the main thing is you guys are cool and have a little spark.......just dont blow that spark too hard,you just might blow it out.....

[DaBudhaStank]

Yes Ma'am birdgirl, it's just hard when all someone wants to do is start trouble. Anywho, thanks all for your advice but I've officially ended it, because NO girl is worth getting this bent out of shape.

[beachguy in thongs]

Well, you gave her five days of consideration!

[Reefer Rogue]

I can empathize with you in the way that i still feel that i'm in love with my ex, even though she dumped me and doesn't want me anymore. It sucks thinking about someone so much, even dreaming about them, when they don't feel the same way you do. I think it would be best by moving on and meeting new women.

[geonagual]

Well, you gave her five days of consideration!

5 days is long enough. LOL

[StickyfingahZ]

Yeah,5 days is long,you cant just forget about someone that you have loved so much.Best of luck for ya bro.