and whenever im playing a game, the friend likes to tell me how to play it like im a freakin retard and if i dont do something he tells me to do in the game, he'll probably get mad and shake his head and scoff at me.
get used to it.... i've been gaming for years and even when i could completely put someone down in a game, if i play single player that person will still tell me what to do in the game.... like i said, get used to it... it has nothing to do with him thinking you're retarded or not...

also my boy told me that i ask dumb questions sometimes just to break the ice when we are with them and by doing that its like an open invitation for the chick to dump all over me and call me "honey". wtf is wrong with asking little ice breaker questions? would they rather sit there in silence and stare at each other?
i'm a guy.... so i can give you some insight....

nothing is more irritating to me then a bunch of questions... i hate questions dunno why lol... and i'm also married... and me and my wife do sit there in silence alot.... i know she don't like to sit in silence, but i do... so yes, maybe they do just wanna sit in silence

and finally...

it pisses me off how my boyfriend shrugs everything off and acts like nothing our friends do ever bothers him ever. he says he "works everything out in his head so he can just be like "wtf, i dont care". so of course he has to say "im not taking sides"
i'd do the same thing... i also have the same fuck it attitude.... but that's a choice, not a habbit.... not caring is about the only way i can make it day to day in life... if i worried about everything i'd of lost it long ago....


anyways, if it bothers you that much, stop going... simple as that... you don't have to go, you choose to go.. you choose to put yourself in that situation.... so either choose to say something to them (the ones that need to hear it, not to sound rude or anything), choose to stop going, or choose to stop complaining about it... again, not to sound rude, it's just my opinion in this situation.