I hear ya... I've been single on and off a few times; each one of the guys I have dated are all very needy fixer-uppers who have confidence issues. I guess I attract them? After the first two, it wasn't so bad, but the last one was a dependent anti-pot (WHO NOW SMOKES POT AFTER I BROKE UP WITH HIM) momma's boy. I've remained really good friends with all of them, but it's still kind of crappy that I can't find That Guy, and when I find someone who I think might be That Guy, he's not interested.

Keep searching, I guess.