Confidence is the word of the day.... be confident in yourself, be straight up, be direct and to the point. Guys don't want to mess around and waste time playing games.
Its not about looks either.... a big girl can be sexy as hell, a real thin girl can be a complete turn-off even if she was a centerfold. I don't figure to be the Ken doll(tho I do have all the accessories), nor am I Shrek...... I am just me.
You just need to be you, and add a little confidence. You gotta be happy with yourself and your situation. Get past being *ALONE* and become *AL-ONE*. 2 halves don't make a whole.... 2 that are "all-one" make a couple. :-)