Quote Originally Posted by beachguy in thongs

advice from me should be thrown away.
correct.

Im not talking about acting out of character, or making a spectacle of yourself, just making a bit more social effort than your used to.

and the important thing to realise, is that you cant possibly go in the wrong direction, your only asking simple questions to build social confidence.

Picture it from a different angle, your sat in a cafe, having a sandwich, and a strange (but very ugly) girl comes over and says "hey that looks nice, I want a sandwich, should I get one of those?"

what would you do?, you would, say:
"yeh, they are ok, get one, but i recomend the one with extra pickle(or whatever)"

end of conversation, unless its natural to continue it..

repeat asking strangers stuff wherever you go....


what Im sugesting is to practice lots of small coversations like this, and you will be suprised how much more confident you will become.
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