Quote Originally Posted by blackbarbie
first off i am not a bad looking girl. i know i'm not a dime but i'm far from ugly and i look better than a lot of girls. i've seen some ugly ass girls with bfs so i dont think looks are a problem right?

i dress okay, i could probably work on that.

i'm shy but i open up once i feel more comfortable.

i'm really smart. i make great grades in school and i'm witty

i'm not flirty. it turns out that all these "subtle signals" i've been trying to give guys for years are only interpreted as being nice! so maybe that's it.

so do u think there is anything that could be preventing me from having a man? if i forgot anything please lemme know and be completely honest. idk what i'm doing wrong here!

believe me girl, there's no use thinking like that. if I had a quarter for everytime i've seen a decent looking girl with an asshole, i'd be a rich man.

it's better just to try an make yourself the best person you can be. so you have something to offer that man, when he does come around. when is that?? no one knows but waiting for it is only making you more anxious.

dress in ways that bring out your confidance(sp?)
act and interact in ways that you feel comfortable.

and don't worry about your looks...
when that guy comes around, he'll notice all these things...

there's no point in rushing "love" or the sappy thought of it. that only leads to more "negative" relationships.