why am i single??

[Purple Banana]

I hear ya... I've been single on and off a few times; each one of the guys I have dated are all very needy fixer-uppers who have confidence issues. I guess I attract them? After the first two, it wasn't so bad, but the last one was a dependent anti-pot (WHO NOW SMOKES POT AFTER I BROKE UP WITH HIM) momma's boy. I've remained really good friends with all of them, but it's still kind of crappy that I can't find That Guy, and when I find someone who I think might be That Guy, he's not interested.

Keep searching, I guess.

Purple Banana Reviewed by Purple Banana on 11-17-2007. why am i single?? first off i am not a bad looking girl. i know i'm not a dime but i'm far from ugly and i look better than a lot of girls. i've seen some ugly ass girls with bfs so i dont think looks are a problem right? i dress okay, i could probably work on that. i'm shy but i open up once i feel more comfortable. i'm really smart. i make great grades in school and i'm witty i'm not flirty. it turns out that all these "subtle signals" i've been trying to give guys for years are only Rating: 5

[beachguy in thongs]

I've remained really good friends with all of them, but it's still kind of crappy that I can't find That Guy, and when I find someone who I think might be That Guy, he's not interested.

Keep searching, I guess.

I have long since been interested in purple bananas! I guess, we have never met.

[potsmokingnome]

I hear ya... I've been single on and off a few times; each one of the guys I have dated are all very needy fixer-uppers who have confidence issues. I guess I attract them? After the first two, it wasn't so bad, but the last one was a dependent anti-pot (WHO NOW SMOKES POT AFTER I BROKE UP WITH HIM) momma's boy. I've remained really good friends with all of them, but it's still kind of crappy that I can't find That Guy, and when I find someone who I think might be That Guy, he's not interested.

Keep searching, I guess.

Purp!

Your one very interestin chickie, and I manean that in the most postive way possible. Your very smart, and I'm sure one day you will find the guy who is right for you, that is intereseted in you for who you are! Which is a very cute, and intelligent woman Don't mind me I'm a little drunk and stoned right now lol :smokin::rasta::stoned:

[Gundari]

Yea just another +1 on the subtle signs thing...we suck at picking up on it.

My friends current girlfriend is kinda the same way, was funny she was talking to us one night about all the subtle signals she was giving him that she wanted to date him and they were things like "I would shove him playfully" or "Id laugh at his jokes" to a guy thats just regular behavior...i mean i punch my best friends in the arm just for the hell of it sometimes.

edit: I will also say, dont try and force anything. Not that i think you will but please please dont, it only brings sadness and problems. Let it come to you.