Biggest Relationship Pitfalls

[GreenLadyOfDankDowns]

Getting too serious too fast. Don't rush into any relationship if you can help it. Take the time to get to know one another first. I've noticed that saying "I love you." to a guy too soon has the potential to freak a guy out.

[Reefer Rogue]

Drugs

[whatsthatsmell]

everyone is different, your gonna get different answers all the time, but in general the inderlying meaning is that there wasnt a 'match'. You have to know yourself before you can know someone else. Knowing what your downfalls are ahead of time, makes things a heck of alot easier in the long run. Just my opinion tho.

[inbud]

Most of all Comunication, if you can talk out your probems you are way ahead.
i would have to agree with libido also, likes and dislikes for food is way easier to live with then not agreeing on how much sex is enough sex. Tho people do change as the years pass in that reguard. Also, guys if the laundry has a basket..just pic up the laundry and put it there, or some day she will blow if she has to pick it up everyday for you for twenty years! Just cause she is a she does not make her a maid, and on the flip side, just cause he is a he does not make him a mechanic.

[stinkyattic]

Poor communication
Incompatible life goals
Incompatible values
Meddling in-laws, ESPECIALLY those with incompatible values
Financial irresponsibility
Substance abuse
Unresolved issues with previous partners, including issues surrounding child-rearing after a divorce
Unresolved emotional problems from childhood abuse or a terrible family life growing up

These are just the ones I've personally had to deal with... and EACH ISSUE I listed has been the primary cause of at least one breakup.

[Zcomp]

Money Money Money!!
If your not both working to get ahead then you will endure many fights.