like here's an example, ive been doing the whole college thing and because of that i havent had a job in a while. I've been looking for one but im being ridiculously picky about what jobs i want, i want one that i wont have to work more then 20 hours a week (max) and that isnt going to be too stressful as school is my number 1 priority. My mother is just convinced im not even looking, the night after i got my hair chopped i heard her say "Oh well you know he's just acting more responsible now, you know he's ready to go out and look for a job now that he's gotten his hair cut. Its like he's a butterfly coming out of its cocoon."