Hey mate I think don't quote me but I think you can go to a motel until a final decision has been made at their (the complex or association) own cost.An attorney that lives in my apt said thats possible as long as its not a safe environment. That also causes for a lease or any other contractual agreement to be null & void. Hell if they kick them out tomorrow you can still leave on the grounds of safety and the chronic fear of death due to the situation at hand.

P.S I know this is a tough time for you but there's always a silver lining and you being able to tell us this story with your entire family intact seems like quite the lining.
Good luck mate and your in all of our prayers hopes and positive thoughts