I'm starting to realize my g/f is a humongous

[Reefer Rogue]

Allow yourself to solely focus on the copious amounts of negativity. You deserve more.

[jeepboi]

If you sit and think about all the bad things, compared to the good things in the relationship. Then it is simple, BUT emotions fuck everything up. I personally cant tell you what to do, but if it was me I would be at a concert talking to every girl that met my fancy. Now dont just go out to get laid right away, just go out and talk and have fun with life, and eventually THE right one will come along. Ya never know when.

Good luck

[xcrispi]

They're like shoes kid ,
Throw that shit out if it doesn't fit . Some day you'll find the perfect pair
Crispi :jointsmile:

[r0k]

They're like shoes kid ,
Throw that shit out if it doesn't fit . Some day you'll find the perfect pair
Crispi :jointsmile:

But don't you have to break shoes in?
When you first try on a new pair of shoes, they never really fit.. But after a few days, they usually do.

However, if you've been wearing the same shoes for over a year, and they still don't fit.. I think you may have gotten the wrong size :thumbsup:

[ReUp]

I see nothing positive about this honey in any of your posts. That's never good.

[roth89]

But don't you have to break shoes in?
When you first try on a new pair of shoes, they never really fit.. But after a few days, they usually do.

However, if you've been wearing the same shoes for over a year, and they still don't fit.. I think you may have gotten the wrong size :thumbsup:

sounds like the type that tries to change their partner for their own benefit

[VoidLivesOn]

I see nothing positive about this honey in any of your posts. That's never good.

thats the best advice you've ever given me.

After reading all yous guys posts and everything I feel like i'm building up enough courage to cut this off, and live my life. Its not really what you guys and friends have been saying, but more of the mere thought that I am way to young to be planning a future with someone who makes me this miserable already. And even though I love her so much for what she has given me in the past its doesn't seem to be working out now and in the future. It just brings to much unecessary stress of thinking about ways to move her down her, her get a job, live together in peace and harmony, blah blah. Now if I felt completly and truly happy for her i would try everything in my will to do it. But after her deciding to stay in NY, which by the way made things way harder, and seeing those skanky pictures of her (which made me look at her completly different) I no longer things its that worth it. Especially with her adding on not talking to me for going to a show, and what kind of job i choose. I just want to be happy. Thanks for the replies, i think i have something to do this week.

[Aristotle]

Dump her for good. She'll try to make it hard on you by going extra crazy, either in the first few weeks following the breakup, or a while after she realizes you were one of the few guys who will ever put up with her shit.. but you have to be strong.

Imagine how good your life is going to be after she is completely out of it.

[VoidLivesOn]

we agreed to try and be friends. we decided we're not going to talk for awhile and till thing smooth out and then we'll try and be friends. we've sorta done this before but i think this time its foreal. this is sort of all dreamy...

[potsmokingnome]

You'll be fine! eventually she won't even enter your mind! Sounds from what i all read ya did the right thing though! I know from experience that just because it was a bad relationship, and its best that its over, it still hurts like a son of a bitch! Eventually the pain and ache in your heart will pass, and you'll be ready to meet other woman, and have other relationships! Just remeber it was for the best!