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11-10-2007, 11:05 PM #11Senior Member
I'm starting to realize my g/f is a humongous
She got over the weed. She'll get over the show.
And, you can get over them. Just remember that you learned a lesson.
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11-10-2007, 11:05 PM #12OPSenior Member
I'm starting to realize my g/f is a humongous
that concert is just a facade to be angry among many other tings. she doesn't want ANYWHERE NEAR girls. umm she just doesn't want me to go, and shes trying to use the just because she has a job and has been saving money to move back down here excuse to get her way. when it clear that that i got a job today and will start getting paid in 2 weeks.
your right if she doesn't have her way no one is happy. i'm starting to think i can be better off without her.
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11-10-2007, 11:07 PM #13Senior Member
I'm starting to realize my g/f is a humongous
just cuz it feels right, doesn't mean it is.... if it feels right, but everything else is pointing to wrong, then there's a high chance it really is wrong.....
i'd tell her 'we'll be together when you do move back down here' and that she can't expect to control you over a phone....
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11-10-2007, 11:17 PM #14Senior Member
I'm starting to realize my g/f is a humongous
Originally Posted by slipknotpsycho
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11-10-2007, 11:22 PM #15Senior Member
I'm starting to realize my g/f is a humongous
i would cut it loose it feels so much better that way.
- Pushit by tool sums up how I felt about my last relationship. God I miss her so much, but i know it just wasn't right. We dated for 2 and a half years, and had built up a ton of trust and friendship through those times. Even though she was an extremely bright and very attractive girl but she was just brought up differently and had different views on subjects which always caused ( although most were pointless and stupid) arguments. You just take it and run with it man, learn from it, but enjoy life and live. Be you, and you will find someone who loves YOU for you.
- I'm not saying to give up b/c every relationship requires a lot of work. I was just adding in my 2 cents, and letting you know what i would do in your shoes.
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11-11-2007, 12:33 AM #16Senior Member
I'm starting to realize my g/f is a humongous
I agree with Geo's comment that she's going to have a lifetime of bad relationships, most likely, and with Lip's comment that she's selfish.
Real love in a healthy relationship feels good. It doesn't yank your chain. Manipulate. Act like a bitch to push you away and then, when you're far enough out, reel you back in. Your thread title says it all. The strong feelings you've got for her are more an expression of what's up with you. By that, I mean you've gotten yourself emotionally invested in someone who's mean and nasty because, on some level, you don't think you deserve better. One way you can test that is by considering young ladies you know who're a lot nicer and more loving. If the nice ones don't appeal to you, that's because you don't like yourself enough to feel like you merit respect, friendliness and steady, even-handed affection. You do deserve it, though. All people do.
You sound like you've got your utility knife out and are starting to realize you need to make a cut. Make it clean and quick and lasting. (I'm speaking metaphorically here. Don't give her an actual knife wound, for heaven's sake.) Then get out and start fishing for someone nicer and prettier. Good luck!
Just slip out the back, Jack
Make a new plan, Stan . . .[SIZE=\"4\"]\"That best portion of a good man\'s life: his little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and love.\"[/SIZE]
[align=center]William Wordsworth, English poet (1770 - 1850)[/align]
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11-11-2007, 03:21 AM #17Senior Member
I'm starting to realize my g/f is a humongous
Awe hell! First loves can be a heartbreak. But it sounds like you are doing the right thing. If she is driving you nuts now, imagine what it would be like in 10 years.
18 years old is young to get real serious with someone.
As far as how long it takes to get over someone special...well that depends on you. It is good that you have a job now as that will help keep you involved. Keep busy and it is easier
You asked how long it took some of us to get over our ex wife's. Well for me it was about 1 and a half years. But I am a very bitter and angry person. I was with her for 10 years.
Trust me ending a relationship with a control freak is easier and better to do now than later.
:thumbsup:
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11-11-2007, 03:28 AM #18OPSenior Member
I'm starting to realize my g/f is a humongous
Originally Posted by Unknown American
man i have alot of respect for you. that must ahve been very hard...
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11-11-2007, 03:42 AM #19Senior Member
I'm starting to realize my g/f is a humongous
Originally Posted by VoidLivesOn
Regardless I survived and so will you. There are plenty of babes out there that are not bitches.
:thumbsup:
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11-11-2007, 06:39 AM #20Senior Member
I'm starting to realize my g/f is a humongous
Originally Posted by thcbongman
the cure for cancer is real
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjhT9282-Tw
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