Nothing to worry about, it's just the genetics of the individual plant. Males generally have an unsurpassed vigor during vegetative growth, and can sometimes grow so tall-so fast, that they leave other plants in the dark (literally). This is unfortunate most of the time, as most folks are hoping that these monster growers turn out to be females. You just happen to have either a very vigorous female, or a less vigorous male.

As for pollination, you could separate the male from the female, (assuming that this is an indoor grow) collect the pollen as it drops, and selectively pollinate all buds as needed. (The tip of a paintbrush works very well for this.) If this is an outdoor grow, I'm sure there are still ways to collect pollen using transparent plastic, Saran wrap, etc.