Shyboots, the fact your hubby smokes hash a couple of times a day (every day?) and that he smokes enough to make his eyes red and slurred speech sounds excessive to me. Sorry.

Anything can become addictive to someone (coffee, TV, music, sex, etc), but that is just a negative word to use to describe someone's likes and habits. I've been smoking pot in moderation for 35 years. I smoke only once a day, just a couple of tokes (now) of my superpotent SuperSkunk, and I skip a day or two each week. My wife is not thrilled about it, but it is not an issue since I give her as much attention as she wants. Pot helps to relieve the boredom of going shopping with her.

Does your husband spend much to support his twice daily hash habbit?