Tell her to get stoned at least once with you. Also, if she is a pill-popper, make her a weed pill with coconut oil, and a gelatin capsule. Some cool person took a lot of time to give us the recipe here on the forums.

When my wife worked for the government, she would get annoyed when I would get high because she couldn't.

As far as feeling ignored, that has nothing to do with marijuana. You were hanging out with your friends, doing an activity that she was not involved in.

She would've felt ignored if you guys were let's say, play Halo 3, and she was just sitting there, or watching a Patriots game, and she isn't into football. Sometimes it's just like that if one person is not involved.

To get NPS's to understand weed, I compare it to other drugs, then I compare it to other medicines, then I compare it to other activities, then I compare it to other fuels, and building materials. People begin to see that not only is it the only drug I know of that it is impossible to overdose on, but that it's great medicine, a non-threatening, non-violent hobby (such as watching football), and has many industrial uses including replacing cutting down trees.

If I am repeating others, it's because I only read the original poster's posts.