Personally I would say "you are a controlling bitch, I choose the weed over you".

Obviously written by someone who has never loved deeply or unselfishly.!! When we love someone we all have to compromise somewhat,,,,its called "working at it" Bud grower, I came on this forum cos I do love my husband very much, I know what it feels like to have a few drinks or heavy duty painkillers as I have a chronic illness...but find it a bit hard to understand the need to smoke hash every day...so want to learn why people do it and what effect it has on people...my hubby says it relaxes him and "turns down the volume on stress senses" Is it like that for you? Can you do your skateboarding safely because you are not feeling "unreal" like when you drink?? I appreciate your reply to me and think you are being very fair with your girl...but maybe it would help her to come on here too and learn/understand as Im trying to do??